Petty's visit

Last week we had a wonderful surprise visit from the Pettys. Robin had called about a week before and we were able to make arrangements to spend some time with them. We had sooooo much fun. We started out by going to Grand Place where we walked around lots of little shops. Unfortunately is was so dark that they didn't get to see the magnificence of the buildings.
Nevertheless we really enjoyed ourselves. Rick is so funny that he had us laughing much of the time. We had a yummy dinner of steak, salad, and fries. We also stopped for hot cocoa, belgian waffles, and belgian frites. Robin and Rick had a waffle with chocolate and strawberries and Dh and I had one with chocolate. The fries are double fried here; first in one oil and then in another one. Both the waffles and the fries are a regional specialty not to be missed.

The next day we met up with the Phairs and visited the Cinquantenaire. This is a huge museum complex and park. The arc with the huge statue can be seen from many parts of the city and is one of the great landmarks of Brussels.

Inside the museum are several exhibits. We saw the African, American Indian, Greek and Egyptian ones. They were all very interesting.

They had lot of ancient writings on tablets, plates, scrolls, and stones. Some of them were very large while some were very, very small.

There were lots of interesting tapestries.

Carvings on stone and wood were so interesting.
We also saw lots of statues, sculptures, paintings, and other various objects of art as well as ancient household objects, dishes, pottery, vases etc.

There were several representations of the tower of babel.

The Phairs and Dh.

Robin admiring some of the jewelry.

An ancient burial casket.

One room was dedicated to mummies. We saw old bones, skulls, hands and feet and toes.

Lots of the mummies had doubles enclosures like our casket and then cement tomb.

Not sure how this picture snuck in here, but we went to visit the Atomium at night. It is the representation of a molecule of iron magnified 105million times. It was a lot of fun to go into several of the balls. First we took an elevator clear to the top and could walk around up there and look down at the city. Then we came back down and then up escalators and stairs. There was a 50's exhibit in one ball and an African exhibit in another. One of the balls was empty because they use if for school kids to have overnighters. We then took stairs and escalators and finally an elevator down. It was so pretty all lit up.

More mummies.

The American Indian exhibit was fun, but most of the things on display were very familiar to us.

This is from the top of the museum. The view of the city is beautiful.

In one of the opposite buildings there is a section of medievil things and also a WWII musuem with tanks, tons of weapons, etc. The men really, really enjoyed this part.

Saturday we drove down to Brugge, a lovely old city. We took a boat ride in the canals. As you can see, it was really, really cold. We are bundled up in 4 or 5 layers of clothes. We had fun looking at the shops, the belgian lace, and lots of fun things. In the evening we went to our church building and listened to the Stake Christmas Musical Program which we all enjoyed.

Robin and Rick spent the night in our missionary apartment and Sunday we went to church. We had fun introducing them to our friends and ward members. The U.S. missionaries were super excited to have them there.

After church, we had a nice turkey dinner and then we drove them back to Brussels. What a great surprise and what a great visit we had.

The Pettys have been our friends since we moved to Texas. We were their neighbors down the street and then Rick became our Bishop. In fact he is the one who helped us fill out all of our missionary papers. There were many a time we would run up to his house for help with one question or another. We were his first missionaries too. Interestingly enough, our daughter Andrea and their daughter Meridith were great friends before we ever met them. It was a super coincidence and wonderful surprise that we moved so close to them and became such good friends. Hurray for friends!

Zone conf Dec 4,2009

Friday we had a great zone conference. This is a time when our entire zone gets together with the Mission President and his wife and we have a teaching, uplifting, inspiring time together.

The chart is a list of scriptures to read each day in Dec. to learn more of Jesus Christ and His ministry here on earth.

President Brubaker drew a picture of the world with a bar or line by each side of the world, with the symbol for eternity by each bar. He said that if this is all that you know of life, then wars, starvation, murders, etc can be explained or rationalized, but when we know that there was an infinity before this life and that there will be an infinity after this life, then this gives us the desire and the faith to go and to do the Lord's will.

Our true potential can be achieved only through the atonement of Jesus Christ and by adopting His way of life which is summarized very beautifully in John 4: 34 "Jesus saith unto them, My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to finish his work." That is what motivated Jesus and He gives us that example to show us the level of devotion and consecration that we should obtain in order to go where He lives. When we crave righteousness as much as we crave food in hungry times, we will be empowered to do His work and His will.
Pres. reminded us that we must be creative and hardworking in the work of the Lord.

Sister Brubaker read a very touching story to us about 2 children who were given 350 lambs to feed. They could, after raising the lambs, use all of the profits for themselves. What happens to the lambs and the brother and sister is very interesting. You can find this story told in a conference talk by Jayne B. Malan, First Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency in the 1989 ENSIGN magazine. You could also look it up online.

Our Heavenly Father knows and cares about you. He wants to find the lost sheep and bring them back into the fold. "I will be on your right hand and on your left, and my Spirit will be in your hearts, and mine angels round about you, to bear you up." (D&C 84: 88)

Our prophet President Benson, has said, "The symbolism of the Good Shepherd is not without significant parallel in the Church today." The sheep need to be led by watchful shepherds. "With a shepherd's loving care, our young people, our lambs, will not be as inclined to wander. And if they do, the crook of the shepherds staff, a loving arm, and an understanding heart will help to retrieve them. (Regional Representatives' Seminar, 3 Apr. 1987.)

Remember the new star that led the shepherds to the stable in Bethlehem. When we share the gospel light, we are as the new star that brings light and truth into the lives of people searching for the truth.

Pres and Sister Brubaker prepared a yummy lunch for us. They served cheese fondue with a delicious bread. We also had salami, mushrooms and peppers to dip into the cheese which was mixed with a white grape juice. There was a green salad and for dessert each one got a cookie called a speckuloos(sp?) which is a traditional Dutch Christmas treat.

Here are pictures of our zone missionaries enjoying their lunch. Sitting by DH is Elder Shaunig, from Austria, an awesome pianist. He plays all of the hymns looking only at the melody and the embellishing it with all sorts of beautiful accompaniment.

President Brubaker with the Speckuloos.

After we ate 3 missionaries who had birthdays this past month stood up and those who wanted to said nice things about them did. I made some comments about one of the missionaries and about his great qualities and I ended up by saying, "..and he is darn good looking." Everyone oooohed and laughed. Poor Elder Bertrand blushed. Dh was one of the birthday boys. Pres made the first comment about him. He said, "Elder Arhets is so darn good looking." He looked directly at me and everyone got a good laugh. HA! So many of the missionaries wanted to say something nice about him. They said things like, "I love to listen to him talk about the scriptures. He is so wise, He is so knowledgeable. He really knows the scriptures. He is kind. I love to spend time talking to him because he inspires me." Many more things were said. Some of them were nice enough to include me in their comments. They said, "I can't talk about Elder Arhets without talking about Sister Arhets. They are in another generation, but we think they are only 23 or so because they can talk to us and relate to us. We love to be with them." One elder said that he didn't even know us well yet, but that he spent 2 months with Elder Nielsen who told him so many things about us that he loves us already. Those missionaries were very kind with their comments. We are the ones who love them and love being with them. We are awed by their knowledge and dedication and courage in serving a mission. They are so young and yet they are so great. The Lord has really blessed us to be able to serve with them.

Some of the missionaries sang a very beautiful hymn.

Elder Maas played his bagpipes after conference was over. He is f a b u l o u s! Wow! He is a master bagpiper. Is that even a word? We all loved it. He is not Irish or Scottish either. He began playing when he was 11. We enjoyed his music for a good 1/2 hr. I never realized before that it takes the coordination of blowing up the bag with your mouth, pushing the bag in with your arm and letting the air go out, and using your fingers to produce the sound. It's really loud too. He did a great job.

It made me remember Elder Anderson who served in Texas when we were living there. On Halloween, he and his companion went to the store and bought a bunch of plaid fabric and draped it around themselves, kind of like kilts. The they came to the trunk or treat where Elder Anderson played his bagpipes. He was like the pied piper. All of the kids and many of the adults followed him around the church to listen to him play.

Week of November 23rd

We have been so very busy that the month of November has just flown by. We have been making lots of visits to inspect missionary apts, taught lots of lessons and discussions, traveled to Calais several times, cooked, worked with our JA's and done various other things. Today we decided to take a p-day, which we hadn't done in a long time. We (read I) wanted to go and see New Moon. I really liked it a lot. I know lots of peole didn't, but I really enjoyed it a lot. I think it followed the book pretty closely and I just liked it. Of course the books are always better, but we had a good time. Dh was a little lost in places and I had to fill him in on some things. I should have done it before, but it worked out just fine.
We have a really nice theatre in Kortrijk where they play movies in English with French and Dutch subtitles. The red chair is in the lobby, which is huge, preparing for Santa to arrive this week-end. There will be a big celebration and after Santa makes his entrance, the children will be able to go and see him and tell him their wishes. In Belgium Santa comes on a horse and then there is always Black Peter. Black Peter is the one who looks for naughty children and takes them if he spots them. He is black because he is covered in soot. In many places in Belgium, one can buy the set of 3: Santa, the horse, and Black Peter. Fun for all!

These are the Petrov's again. I know I have written about this amazing couple before, but I want to write some more. Vasil and Hayrie came from Bulgaria for her to have surgery on her eyes. She has been completely blind since she was 18 months old. He also has lots of physical problems including unsteadiness, epilepsy, and double vision. The missionaries began teaching them by showing DVD's which she would listen to and then they would point to verses in the Bulgarian scriptures which Vasil would read aloud to her. Finally we came to France and I was able to start translating for them. They were baptized and have been so faithful and diligent ever since. Vasil has already read the Book of Mormon aloud twice to them. They remember everything too. They read for understanding and retention. When we are in Sunday school or Relief Society and I translate something for her, she will usually say that she has already read that and knows about it. She can then relate the story or concept back to me. She has an amazing memory. When she first found out about blessings, she asked the elders to bless her. They did and then instead of just seeing all black she began to see light at times and she was so grateful. Any concept I teach her, they immediately pick up and are so faithful in keeping it. For example, I taught her about tithing and the next week they come in with 2euros for the 20 that they receieved. They have been faithful every week since then. One Sunday I taught her about fasting. The next week she comes and tells me that they fasted and how great it felt. The week after that they come to church and she tells me that they fasted 3 times that week. I explain that it is only necessary to fast once a month, but she answers that it just felt so good to fast. They are like that with everything. Hayrie recently found out that surgery is not an option, that it will not help her. Instead of being mad or depressed she said, "I really wanted to see, but it's okay. I know why I had to come to France. I had to get not light in my eyes, but the light of the gospel. I am so grateful to have found the church and to be so close to the Lord." They are learning French. Last week we met at the church to home teach them and I had to translate from French into Russian and then she translates into Bulgarian for Vasil. Her home teachers are French and Tahitian. Sometimes Dh has to first translate from French into English. After the lesson she wanted us to say some words from the dictionary into French. It turned out to be a Bulgarian dictionary, so I had to try to read the words in Bulgarian and then say them in Russian and then translate into French. Sometimes Vasil had to read the word for me first and many times Dh had to say them in French cause, you know, French pronounciation is so hard. Anyway, it was quite the process. I also then had to write words in English from what she said in Bulgarian for the post office in Bulgaria. I was so tired after that session. In any case, I think they are just awesome.

This is Sylvie Gigant. I've pictured her before too. She and 2 of her sons were baptized earlier this year. She has 2 other sons, one of whom is very troubled, rebellious etc. We and the rest of our district missionaries are trying to help her family. One of her sons, just in his early 20's, has just recently been diagnosed with an enlarged heart. He has been given only 2-3 yrs. They all remain faithful and he wants to serve a mission. He has recently been called to be a ward missionry. Sylvie loves to cook and often cooks for the missionaries. She is an excellent cook. Well, she really wanted to teach me to cook a few dishes and so we bought the stuff and went over there. She was so excited to share her cooking skills. Here she is making mashed carrots and potatoes to which she adds a little bit of nutmeg.

She showed me how to make Poulet a la casserole, Quiche Lorraine, Sauce, and Tarte au chocolat.

We enjoyed our time spent with her and we think we were able to do some good in that family too.

Last week we also had to make 2 trips to Calais. Sunday it was for our monthly visit to the ward there where Dh gave an excellent talk on not being offended. He is the High Councilor for that ward now, so we have to travel there each month. It takes about 1hr 50 mins with no traffic to get there. We arrive early, about 9:00 so that I can teach Ceasar first.

While we were there, we also did a missionary apt inspection. One of the Elders had been in our district before and when I called him about making the visit, he right away said that he wants us to stay for lunch. We had such a nice time visiting Elder Spicer(USA) and Elder Schaunig(Austria). Elder Spicer was the one who invited us, but Elder Schaunig is the one who did the cooking. Ha. He made a yummy pasta with a sauce that he invented which included fish and meat. For dessert they had choc. pudding from the store. It was pouring rain that day, but we were warm and cozy in the apt and sure felt welcomed by those nice elders. I thought it was so nice of them to invite us. They were happy that we brought them new pillows. Sister Brubaker bought the missionaries new pillows and I get to distribute them as needed. We are trying to get the apartments up to par as well as making sure that the missionaries are keeping them nice and clean.

As I mentioned, I had to teach Ceasar again. Ceasar is the Russian fellow who lives in Calais who came to church last month when we were there. He has quite the story. Ceasar was born in Russian about 64 years ago. When he was 16, he tried to escape the country, but was captured at the border. He said he was a young, dumb kid and they caught him. Anyway, they couldn't put him in prison because he was under age, but from that day on, the KGB kept close tabs on him. Anytime he got a job, the KGB would show up at the workplace and talk to the bosses. He would immediately get fired. This kept up for many, many years. He married and had 2 children. Then he found a bible and began reading it. He said at first he only understood about 1/2 of what he was reading. His wife read it, but didn't understand anything, according to him. Anyway, KGB found out about it and called and had his wife rip it up in front of him. Then as a punishment for having a bible, they killed his daughter. He later escaped from Russia. He tried to persuade his wife to go with him, but she refused as she was working for KGB. He went to many different countries; Czech Republic, Poland, Eastern Germany, Romania, Switzerland, Belgium and some I can't remember and was not accepted in any. He was physically thrown out of many countries, being first accosted and handcuffed and literally thrown out. He spent some time in prison, in Russia, for no reason other than not supporting communism. He finally ended up in France which gave him political asylum. Ceasar is now searching for the truth. He only speaks Russian and so whenever we are in Calais, I teach him. I gave him a copy of Preach My Gospel and the Book of Mormon and he is reading both. He has lots of questions and things to discuss. What a hard life this poor guy has had and yet he is in good spirits and is doing the best he can.


Wednesday we had to go to Calais again to renew our legality. It took a long, long time. We will have to take 2 more trips there to finish up. While we were there, we decided to eat at a restaurant. We have very seldom eaten out, so this was a real treat. We ordered this lamb and potatoe dish. It was good, but I think we cook just as well and maybe a little better ourselves.

We also paid a visit to the Voyez house this week. They were so happy to see us and Bernadette said that just that afternoon while she was taking her nap, she kept thinking of me, so she was especially excited that we were there.
We had a nice visit and Jean Jacques made us some delicious hot cocoa with cream.

We cooked for family home evening and for Institute. Dh gave an awesome lesson at fhe. We also taught lessons to Emmanuelle a young woman who has been very troubled and is trying to make her way back into life and into the church. We taught Samuel and Clothilde and Dino and Larissa and some others. We had several meetings including one with the Stake President and his council. Of course, we had Thanksgiving as I already blogged about. Saturday I was sick with vertigo and so spent the day in bed. We had to miss a ward activity Sat. eve, but I just couldn't go. I felt bad for making Dh miss out. By Sunday I was recovered and feeling just fine.

This week is turning out to be just as busy.